Friday, July 21

John Pinnock Thirkell (1814-1884) and Mary Baynes Brown (1815-1881)

John and Mary Thirkell, my great great great great grandparents through Grandma Dean, on her fathers maternal side. I'm not sure why I chose to do this couple next. I had intended to do one on the Maughans, perhaps Peter Maughan, who settled Cache Valley, or his son, Willam H. Maughan who was the first bishop. For some reason though, things gravitated toward the Thirkell's, whom I knew absolutely nothing about.

It just felt right. Once I started reading the history, like always, it was just right.

Honestly, I do not really have any rhyme or reason to who I write about, and when. I do cycle through each of my grandparents lines in the same order (Geniel, Byron, Leon, LuDean), otherwise there is no order. Might be through their maternal side, might be through their paternal side. I just go with where I am lead.

Sometimes I think that I should start with the oldest ancestor in that line and move closer to me, or vice versa, just to keep it in order (and honestly it would probably be simpler for me, and make more sense for those that follow this blog), but something stops me from doing this. It may sound corny, but when I write each post, I feel like I was guided to do that particular one. When I am done, I know I was guided to them. If I go in order, it seems that I will ... miss something. I know that sounds odd, but do not know how else to explain.

Someone once said to me that our ancestors want us to read and know about them. Since starting this project, I have come to firmly believe this. I feel that things have been opened and showed to me, that otherwise may not have been. I feel that after I clean their grave and stand and talk to them, they are there. They hear me. I just wish I could hear them ... clearer. 


I guess because it is just habit, usually the first thing I say when I am cleaning the grave, is to introduce myself. Then I feel completely silly because they know who I am. I have no doubt each one would call me by name and give me a giant hug as I walked up to them and their grave site, even without any introduction. I ask them questions. Every time I ask them if they could tell me anything, what would it be? What stories would they share with me about their selves and their families? Always, always, I ask them to help me in my search.

Each time I go to the Richmond Cemetery, I stop and talk to Grandma and Grandpa Webb. Mostly Grandma. I know she would have LOVED this project. And not just the Hymas' or Webb's, but my Glover side as well. I tell her about what and who I'm working on and things I have learned or found. A few days ago, I posted on Facebook about how I have really missed her since working on this because I knew she would love it. But like my mom said, yes she would, but she is probably helping me. I do believe this. Not that it is only her, or the particular ancestor I am working, helping me, I believe it is a multitude of them, at various times, that are helping.

There are things I have found, that are not in their histories. For example, this particular history, in other stories and memoirs that have been written and posted there is no mention of financial hardships in England. However, I have found documentation showing this to be the case (it is discussed and cited below in the personal history). Am I really the only one that has searched in that direction? Probably not. For some reason, it just wasn't the time to have that piece of information revealed.

During the Sunday afternoon session of General Conference, April 1999, Dennis B. Neuenschwander of the First Quorum of the Seventy discusses doing genealogy and building a bridge in the talk, Bridges and Eternal Keepsakes. After talking about how we each have intangible keepsakes or momentos from our ancestors, that often include stories, histories or traditions, he states "These eternal keepsakes also form a bridge between past and future and bind generations together in ways that no other keepsake can." He goes on to say, "Knowledge of our ancestors shapes us and instills within us values that give direction and meaning to our lives. (And that) family history research provides the emotional bridge between the generations."

In my very first post, It all started with Grandpa Sam, I reflected "So, the more I look and read, the more I want to know them. Who were these people, that got together to create the world I now know?" This is still true. Who were these people? The more I read, the more I search, sometimes in the most random direction. The above mentioned information about financial hardships was found because I was looking for information on the estate that John worked at. I was curious to see if I could find the location. I not only found the location, but found other information as well.

It is also fascinating to me how each of my family branches are so intricately entwined with the other and with the LDS church. When I started this, I did not realize (although I should have!) that I would be researching into the church's history as well. I thought it would simply be the personal histories. Yet, in researching this ancestor, I discovered the random fact of how much the church paid for the ground where the Logan Temple now stands. Who would have known!? (Yes it is discussed below!)


An Ancient Chinese Proverb says, "An invisible thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, and circumstance. The thread may stretch or tangle. But it will never break." With this researching and looking at information, its never been more clear to me that everything happens for a reason and more importantly, everything happens in God's time. It is not always mentioned how each husband and wife met, but it is still clear that 100s of millions of things had to fall into place for them to get together. 


In the following personal histories, there is mention of a William Frederick Darley that traveled with the Thirkell's to Utah. Not only was this likely a huge help to John because he had all daughters at the time, but William later married one of those daughters. Having that link between William and his wife Jemima likely helped in more ways than we can fathom.

Everything happens for a reason and in Gods time.

Including each of my posts. Often, there are times I read something or find something, that speaks to me. Such as another ancestor, Gunild Kirstine Hansen, being a single mother of 3 for almost 33 years! Even though this was at the height of polygamy, she remained single. She brought her children to a new world, for a better life. She had nothing but her family. Or likewise, the Thirkell family, overcoming financial ruin, and insurmountable odds, to follow through with what they firmly believe in and also immigrate to a new world.


If they can overcome these things, in the 1800s, I have no excuse. If they can do it, so can I!

John and Mary Thirkell are buried in the Hyrum City Cemetery. I found them fairly easy, I had them mapped out, but I also noticed the name as I drove through the cemetery. They are near many other old grave stones. I pulled some long grass that was around the stones and then scrubbed them, talking to them the whole time. This couldn't have taken more than 10 minutes, it was a hot day and by the time I was done I was pretty sweaty. I was glad that I had had the foresight to go and get a drink from the gas station down the road first and even more glad to get back into my air conditioned car. I often thank the Lord that I did not live back then, simply because of the modern conveniences we now have.

There is a tall, old headstone that has John and Mary listed on the west side, and William and Jemima on the south side. Additionally, John and Willam have a newer monument that has been set up just for them. It tells a short history of their accomplishments (picture below). According to cemetery records, John, Mary, William and Jemima are buried next to each other, forming a square. After reading their history, you will see how close they were. Their burial plots (and singular headstone) continues this closeness in death as well. A true testament to all how important family is. 




John Pinnock Thirkell Personal History




John Pinock Thirkell was born the seventeenth of July, 1814, at Cranbrook, Kent, England, the son of Jemima Chantler and Nathan Pinnock Thirkell, the third of seventeen children, thirteen of whom grew to maturity. The name Pinnock came from a relative who went to Australia. He and his wife had no children, so they offered to leave their fortune to all of those named Pinnock after him. Many of the children were given the name, but no inheritance came to any of them. 

John's father, Nathan was a game keeper (2017: gamekeeper would be similar to what we would call a game warden or conservation officer. His job was to protect the wildlife of the estate from poachers.). This occupation at that time was very dangerous. Two sons, George and Henry, had been killed while occupied as gamekeepers; yet John started working with his father at the age of seventeen. One time when John and his father heard poachers in the forest, they called to them to come out of hiding. As two of them appeared, one of them shot John in the leg. It was at close range, and cloth from his trousers went into the wound with the shot, causing a great deal of trouble. John limped, and in later years, had to use crutches. On other occasions, John had a finger and eye injured by poachers. The eye was taken out, scraped and returned to the socket and he had good eyesight afterwards.

When John was twenty-one, he went to the north of England to be gamekeeper for Squire Oswald Eaton. His fame as a gamekeeper had gone before him, and the people, fearing that the pheasants would become too numerous and eat their grain, did not want him to come. When John took over as gamekeeper, he trapped rabbits which had been destroying their crops. On seeing his interest in the welfare of the country, people welcomed him into the vicinity.

While in Northern England, John met Mary Brown, daughter of William Brown and Sarah Baynes. The Baynes were textile designers and weavers. Mary was born the thirtieth of March, 1815, at Hutton Bushel, Yorkshire, England. John and Mary were married the twenty-first of September, 1836. Two children were born to them at Hutton Bushel, Sarah Ann being born the eighteenth of September, 1837, and Jemima born the eleventh of November, 1841.

(2017: I have found documentation showing that the Thirkell's had financial problems during this time. This information is according to the book The Bankrupt Directory; Being a Complete Register of All the Bankrupts from Dec. 1820 to Apr. 1843 compiled by George Elwick. The book was published in 1843. The original is found in The British Library and was digitized Aug 13, 2015. The Preface states that "The Bankrupt Directory will supersede the labor of traversing though other more elaborate publications ... by supplying an immediate and easy reference to the essential information so often required by Bankers, Merchants, Traders, Solicitors, and others: and may serve as a beacon to guide them in their future transactions." So this is essentially a old-fashioned way to credit check. In this book, it is listed "Thirkell John Pinnock, Cranbrook, Kent, farmer, July 12, 1842"

I was also able to find documentation of the charge in the London Gazette. Printing was July 12, 1842 and mentions John in the following,

WHEREAS a Fiat in Bankruptcy is awarded and issued forth against John Pinnock Thirkell, of Cranbrook, in the county of Kent, Farmer, Dealer and Chapman, and he being declared a bankrupt is hereby rerender himself to the Commissioners in the said Fiat named, or the major part of them, on the 25th day of July instant, at two of the clock in the afternoon, and on the 23d day of August next, at twelve o'clock at noon, at the Guildhall of the city of Canterbury, and make n full discovery and disclosure of his estate and effects; when and where the creditors are to come prepared to prove their debts, and at the first sitting to choose assignees, and at the last sitting the said bankrupt is required to finish bis examination, and the creditors are to assent to or dissent from the allowance of his certificate. All persons indebted to the said bankrupt, or that have any of his effects, are not to pay or deliver the same but to whom the Commissioners shall appoint, but give notice to Mr. Bartlett, No. 9, Beck-street, Regent-street, London, Solicitor.)
John moved with his family to Northampton, where he was gamekeeper for the Earl of Cardegan. Here three more children were born, Caroline the seventeenth of February, 1844, at Eberston; Mary Agnes, the twenty-eighth of April, 1847, at Glaspshorne; and Rebecca, the twenty-eighth of August, 1852, at Brigstock Parks. An old account book used by John at this time is in possession of the family. "The Charge of the Six Hundred" was written of the soldiers that the Earl of Cardegan financed for the King of England.

(2017: James Thomas Brudenell, was the 7th Earl of Cardigan. Earl at the time John would have been gamekeeper. Through my research I have found that he worked at Deene Park near Corby. They do have a website dedicated to Deene Park. The Deene Park Facebook page has beautiful pictures of the gardens and is frequently updated.


In another account, it says that John was shot in the leg by poachers, also mentioned above. However, the alternate account goes on to say that the Earl visited John while he was recovering and gave him a large sum of money as compensation. Once he was better as could be, the Earl commissioned a painter to paint his portrait that hung in the lodge.

{7/27/2017} When I started this edit, I did not have definitive proof that John worked at Deene Park. While researching, I found that there had been a book made from John's daughter Sarah Ann Thirkell Pool's journal, titled, "But One Husband: The Truth about Mormon History by a Woman Who Lived It". I have read the first several chapters, but not the entire book yet. In the beginning of this book, she does confirm that the place John was employed was Deene Park. So, with this confirmation, I took a shot in the dark and sent an email to the listed email from the Deene Park website last week. I explained who I am, and what I am doing as far as this blog. I told them the information I had about John and asked if they had any documentation or anything they may be willing to share. I figured worst case scenario I would get a no, or just simply no reply. I really did not get my hopes up.

Today I was so excited to see a reply! Deene Park is currently owned by Robert and Charlotte Brudenell and the reply came directly from Mrs. Brudenell. The email I had reached out to was info@deenepark.com, however the reply came from Mrs Brudenell's personal email. I am unsure if this email is public info, so I will not include her direct email address.

Her response was as follows:
Dear Holly
What a interesting research you have done and I am so impressed that you have managed to dig out what you have.Very, very sadly we do not have records from about 1800 to around 1900. The 7th Earl of Cardigan’s beautiful wife and merry and profligate widow for 48 years was not much of a custodian and I suspect that the records were either destroyed or not kept at all. Horrid for you and really rotten for us as we are constantly asked if we have them!
If, by some miracle, I do come across anything I would be delighted to let you know.
With many thanks
 
Charlotte Brudenell
Deene Park
Corby
Northants
NN17 3EW
Sad! However I was absolutely thrilled she took the time to reply. I did find information that her husband's parents, Edmund Brudenell and Marian Brudenell were responsible for restoring Deene Park to its current grandeur.)

One day John encountered a local L.D.S. Elder cutting timber. This man told him about the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The Elder talked with him a long time, quoting and explaining scripture from the Bible to him. When John arrived home, he looked in the Bible for these passages of scripture and was surprised that he had not understood them before. John prayed that he might know whether or not they were true. Shortly after this incident he became seriously ill; never before nor after had he known such illness. His wife suggested that the Elders be called. They came and administered to him, and he was healed. He felt that his prayer had been answered. Following this event the Elders met often with the Thirkell family.

Believing strongly in the new religion, John joined the Church and was baptized the sixth of October, 1850, by John Kimber and confirmed by Thomas Smart on the twentieth of October, 1850. Mary, his wife, was baptized the twenty-second of October by John Kimber and confirmed the twenty-eighth of October, 1850 by Thomas Smart. Two children, Sarah Ann and Jemima, were baptized the twenty-eighth of December, 1850, by Thomas Smart. John's brother, Henry, was baptized t
he eighteenth of October, 1851. 

The parish minister objected to the Thirkell family joining the “Mormon Church” and complained to the Earl so forcefully that the Earl gave John notice to leave his employ in 1 month. A neighbor, Robin Brown, gave the family shelter until John found another job. After a short time John did find another job as gamekeeper for a Mr. Goodman at the Brigstock Lodge. (2017: Most likely now named the Brigstock Manor House.)

At a branch meeting, John prophesied that he and his family would go to Utah and that they would experience hunger. The people were amazed that he would consider going to America. Just before sailing to America John and Mary heard about polygamy; Mary wanted none of that and objected to their going; but John knew the Gospel was true and wanted to go to America; therefore he promised that he would not enter into plural marriage. This promise he faithfully kept.

John and Mary with their 5 daughters, Sarah Ann (15), Jemima (11), Caroline (9), Mary Agnes (6) and Rebecca (6 months), sailed from Liverpool. While on board the ship Ellen Maria, a fire broke out, causing much excitement among the passengers. Shortly after the fire was controlled, they found themselves stranded on a sand bar. Here they remained for 2-3 days while a strong wind and high waves rocked the ship until it was thought that they would never reach America. John assisted the crewmen in lowering the anchor and drawing in the sails. He was a very strong man and helped while the wind whipped him from side to side. After many hard and anxious hours the men succeeded in freeing the ship, which was still in good condition to continue the voyage. When John boarded the ship, he brought with him a large teakettle and a bottle of gin. The gin was for treating the cook so that he would be able to get hot water while on the voyage. He shared the water with others on the boat and became known as the big man with the big teakettle.

After a strenuous voyage with its many obstacles conquered, they arrived at New Orleans on the seventh of March, 1853. As soon as the landing formalities were attended to, they proceeded up the Mississippi River to Keokuk, Iowa, where they encountered wind storms, floods and rain, all of which added to the delay.

John Thirkell had prepared for the trip across the plains by sending money ahead to buy supplies. He had sent enough to purchase three oxen and one and one-half wagons; the other oxen and one-half wagon was owned by a Mr. Wilson. They also purchased two milch cows.

The Thirkell family was assigned to travel with the Jacob Gates Company, and John was chosen to be a captain of ten. About this time a young man William Frederick Darley, arrived from England and wanted to travel to Salt Lake Valley with the Saints. He met John Thirkell and asked if he could work and travel to the valley with him. Since John Thirkell liked the young man. He accepted his offer, and they traveled across the plains together.

The supplies were loaded into the wagons, and early in June, they started the long trek toward the West. As the journey progressed, one of the milch cows was used for food; but they still had one left to supply milk and butter for the family and others of the company. The cream was put into a container and hung on the back of the wagon so that the swing and sway of the wagon churned the cream to butter. The cow they had saved for milking had twin calves one of which was traded to a settler for supplies. Because its mother kept returning to it, they killed the other calf and hung its hide on the rear of a wagon; thereafter the mother followed along without further trouble.

The Indians on numerous occasions visited the company but were friendly, because John's attitude was to feed rather than fight them.

Two of the daughters became very ill and died; Rebecca, one year old, the third of August, and Mary Agnes, six years old, the tenth of August, 1853. The family possessions had been packed into five large boxes; two of these were emptied and used as coffins for burying the children.

After arriving in the Salt Lake Valley on the twenty-sixth of September, 1853, they were advised by President Brigham Young to continue on to Grantsville; this meant twenty-seven more long miles for the weary Saints to travel.

The family settled in Grantsville, living in tents and the wagons. William Frederick helped them build a two-room log house; then he left to work in the salt plant. About two years later William Frederick returned and help John Thirkell clear another ten acres of land of greasewood. On this land they planted grain, but the grasshoppers were numerous; consequently their crop was very poor. They had no wheat bread for three months; only bread made from musty corn. Their grain ripened the first in town because they had no irrigation water for it, and the lack of water forced early ripening. Of course John divided his wheat with every one else and had only a pan full left for his family after it had been ground in a coffee mill.

While the family lived in Grantsville, John became water master. Sarah Ann, the eldest daughter, taught school in one of the rooms in their little log home. The house was built inside the fort and that winter a high wall was built around the fort. This wall had four doors, each of which had to be guarded. The cattle were kept inside of the wall at night.

Two more daughters were born to John and Mary while they lived in Grantsville; Emily Alice, the sixteenth of August, 1854, and Henrietta, the twenty-second of October, 1857. The latter one died the twenty-second of March, 1861, in Wellsville, Utah.

In 1857 a group left Grantsville to go north to settle in a new location called Cache Valley. John Thirkell with William Frederick Darley and his wife Jemima Thirkell accompanied this group. Mary Thirkell and four daughters stayed in Grantsville, the eldest daughter Sarah Ann had married John Pool.

After the company arrived in Cache Valley, John and William Frederick cleared some land and planted grain. In the fall they harvested a good crop, more than they could take with them when they returned to Grantsville for the winter. In anticipation of this situation, William Frederick built a log room in which to store the surplus.

While in Grantsville in 1858, they were directed to go to the south of Utah, because the United States soldiers were coming. They lived in the same wagons in which they had crossed the plains, but the tent had been used to make trousers for William Frederick, so they had none for this trip.

After the soldier scare was over, the Thirkell and Darley families moved to Weber Bottoms, north of Ogden, where they lived during the winter. When spring arrived, they moved to Wellsville, hoping to get the grain that had been left there. While traveling through Sardine Canyon, they saw a band of Indians. Quickly a corral was made of the wagons, and the oxen were driven into the center; but John Thirkell ordered the men not to shoot the Indians. The leader of the Indians, Weber Jack, recognized John, because they had seen and talked with each other in Grantsville while John was threshing wheat for a Mr. Martindale. The Indian called John "Marty Wheat." Because these two had been good friends in Grantsville, the settlers and Indians parted on friendly terms.

On reaching Wellsville they found the grain unmolested and a volunteer crop growing on the land from which it had been harvested the year before. They planted more crops and built more log houses. William Frederick Darley also built another room; this time on the Thirkell homestead. Then they moved the first room, built for the wheat in 1857, near the new one, leaving a space between which later was closed in to make a third room. The homes were built inside the fort with dirt roof and dirt floors. The beds were laid on the floor with straw underneath to keep the bedding clean.

Recreation in the little village in those days, or nights as the case may be, was to meet together and husk corn for drying or to peel squash for making pies and for baking.

On July fourth 1857, their first summer in the Valley, a meeting was held in the bowery. Many were discouraged because their fields of wheat had recently been frozen black while in the boot; and, during the winter of 1855-56, hundreds of cattle had died of starvation and cold. John Thirkell, filled with the Spirit, stood up and, pointing northeast toward where Logan now is, prophesied* that some day a Temple would be built on the east bench. He said that he could see it and many houses and thousands of people in them. He told the people to press on, be diligent, and faithful and that God would temper the elements for their good and that Cache Valley would be a fruitful land, a place to be desired.

* This prophecy is the first recorded mention of a temple to be built in Cache Valley. It is to be found in "The History of the L.D.S. Temple in Logan. Utah" by Larkin; and in "The History of a Valley" by Joel Ricks and the Centennial Commission.

Although it was frozen, a fair crop of wheat was harvested that fall (1857); and, as soon as the troubles with the United States Soldiers were settled, people did come to the Valley in great numbers.

John Thirkell was six feet tall and well built (One account says his nick name was "Tall John"); his arms were long, his skin clear, and his eyes and hair brown. His teeth were so strong he could swing by them, and they were still good until his death at age seventy. After coming to Utah he still wore the short buckskin breeches, as they were called, that he had worn as a gamekeeper in England. When dried and shrunken after the rains and the washings, they were halfway up to his knees. It was in this attire that he stood, pointing to the northeast of Wellsville, or toward Logan, when he made the above prophecy. Prophecy comes not by the will of man but only of God. This prophecy is on record in the Temple history in the Logan Temple and an account of it was published in the Improvement Era in May, 1959 (p331).

One day while still living in Grantsville, a man asked John why he still wore the short buckskin pants, his answer was, "For the same reason any man wears pants."

The first real bricks made in Cache Valley were made by John Thirkell and used to build an addition onto his home as shown in the picture. The first apples and black native currants in the valley were brought by ox team from the Salt Lake Valley by John Thirkell. There were twenty apples on the trees when President Brigham Young visited the valley. Two apples were given to him for tithing.

John Thirkell served as a Minuteman to fight the Indians, and also helped build the roads and public buildings in his vicinity.

Emily Alice and Lydia Baugh Larsen
John Thirkell home about 1910
The church membership records of the Thirkell family were received from Grantsville in April, 1857. John Thirkell was ordained a Priest in England in 1851, and a High Priest in Wellsville on the nineteenth of September, 1869. By counsel from the Latter-day Saint Church Authorities to the early Saints, he was rebaptized the sixth of July, 1875, by Thomas Leavitt and reconfirmed the same day by John Jardine.

(2017: I found a couple master thesis' that reference John's prophecy about Logan Temple. The first one is The Geographical Analysis of Mormon Temple Sites in Utah by Garth R. Liston from BYU, 1992. Starting on page 82 it talks about the geography of Cache Valley. On page 85 it talks of John's prophecy and William H. Maughan's reference later. On page 92, Mr Liston goes on to say,
From scant church historical documents and other records the Logan Temple site was publicly alluded to at least two times by different members of the church, before the site was actually chosen. On both of these occasions, those who proclaimed a temple site would be located in Logan were said to have declared such under inspiration of God. It is unknown whether the second individual, Wilford Woodruff, to declare this message, was aware of the previous prophecy of John Thirkill. As John Thirkill is depicted as a relatively obscure church member, and communication and recording means were very rudimentary during that time period, it seems probable woodruff was uninformed to Thirkill's earlier temple site announcement. Even less is known why Brigham Young chose the temple site, other than Young and other church leaders chose it on May 17, 1877. It would have been obvious to Young and other leaders, as it is to most people today, that the Logan Temple site is well suited to a large religious structure. Visibility of the temple site excellent, the site is large enough and geologically stable for a considerable building, and the site and temple constitute the central monument and theme of Cache Valley. Whether approaching Cache Valley from north, south, east, or west, the temple site, probably draws the attention of most visitors to the valley.
The second thesis is titled The History of the L.D.S Temple in Logan, Utah by Melvin A. Larkin from USU, 1954. In this thesis, it is stated that the prophecy was indeed made on July 4, 1857, just one year after the first settlement in Cache Valley (p.14). Official announcement for the temple was made on Oct 8, 1876, however there had been mentions by Brigham Young and other apostles (Franklin D Richards included) that the Logan Temple would be built. On May 17, 1877 the temple site was decided on and the ground was dedicated.

As an interesting side note, according to documentation in this thesis, dedication of the temple site was on May 1877, however the church did not actually purchase the ground until May 1878. They started construction before they actually owned the ground haha! Purchase price was $300, but was only for 6 of the 8 lots in that block. The other two lots, the southwest and northwest portion of what we now know as the current temple grounds, were owned privately. The northwest was deeded to the church Oct 1880, and the southwest in October 1884. It does not mention pricing associated with this (p.23).

I wonder how similar the valley is today compared to what he saw in his vision.)

John Pinnock Thirkell died 10 April 1884 in aged 69 years, 8 months, & 23 days and is buried in the Wellsville City Cemetery.




Monument in Wellsville City Cemetery
Monument engraving says,

"John Thirkell
Birth: Jul. 17, 1814 Cranbrook, Kent, England 
Death: Apr. 10, 1884 Wellsville, Cache, Utah, USA

Married Mary Baynes Brown-born March 30 1815, died Dec 7 1881. Children: Sarah, Jemima, Caroline, Mary, Rebecca, Emily & Henrietta

John & his family joined the LDS Church in England, & there prophesied that they would go to Utah & experience hunger. His prophecy was fulfilled soon after they arrived in Utah. After a bitter winter, discouraged saints ready to leave the Cache Valley met on the 4th of July, 1857, at the Wellsville Bowery. John stood pointing to the Logan East Bench & prophesied that a temple would be built there among many homes. He told the people to be steadfast & God would temper the elements in the valley. This is the first recorded vision of this temple, & he lived to see the prophecy fulfilled. He made the first real bricks in Cache Valley, using them for an addition to his home. The first apples & black native currants were brought to the valley by John. When Brigham Young visited, the trees had twenty apples, two of which were given for tithing."


John's Ordinances CompleteBaptism - 6 October 1850
Confirmation - 6 October 1850
Initiatory - 21 September 1861 Endowment House
Endowment - 21 September 1861 Endowment House
Sealing to Parents - 22 March 1918 Logan Utah Temple
Sealing to Spouse - 21 September 1861 Endowment House - Mary Baynes Brown


(2017: The spouses below are listed in Family Search. There is no marriage date for either. There is a document that shows a child, Alfred Amos Thirkell, was christened. The father is listed as John Pinnock Thirkell, mother Judith. This was in 1823 - our John would have been 9 years old. John's father, Nathan had a brother named John Pinnick. This is actually who is referenced in this documentation. Why they were sealed, I do not know.

There is no documentation for Margaret Cook. When I say no documentation, I mean nothing. The only thing listed for her is that she was sealed to John on 1 May 1873. Although, it is interesting to note that Mary's grandmothers maiden name was Cook. Perhaps that is where the information has crossed?)

Sealing to Spouse - 1 May 1873 Endowment House - Margaret Cook
Sealing to Spouse - 19 May 2016 Brigham City Utah Temple - Judith


Mary Brown's Personal History 



Mary was born on 30 March 1815 at Hutton Bushel, Yorkshire, England to Sarah Baynes and William Cook Brown. Her family was well established and had been blessed with many comforts of life, providing Mary with abundant opportunities. She was an accomplished seamstress and made many lovely clothes for her daughters. Her Baynes grandparents were designers and weavers of fabric, so Mary always had fine material available to sew. When she came to Utah she brought two large boxes of fabric with her; however, she ended up trading much of it for food rather than making it into clothes for her daughters.

Mary was a large woman and at times weighed as much as 200 pounds. Her hair and eyes were a very dark brown. She inherited a respiratory problem from her Cook grandparents and so suffered with asthma much of her life and died with it at age 66. Even though she had been used to an easier life in England, she was a very resourceful pioneer and seemed able to endure anything that came along. She was a loving mother and wife and did not complain about anything. However, when she heard the church was practicing polygamy, she told her husband she did not want to go to Zion. He promised her that if she would go that he would not enter into that practice and he never broke the promise.

Mary married John Pinock Thirkell. He was a gamekeeper for Squire Oswald Eaton in Yorkshire when Mary met him. They were married on 21 September 1836. John was born on 18 July 1814 in in Cranbrook, Kent, England to Jemima Chantler and Nathan Pinock Thirkell. His father was also a gamekeeper.

Two children were born in Hutton Bushel--Sarah Ann on 18 September 1837 and Jemima on 11 November 1841.

John moved his family to Northampton where he was gamekeeper for the Earl of Cardigan. It was here that Mary and John met the missionaries of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Mary was baptized on the 22 October 1850 by Thomas Smart. Following the conversion and baptism of John and Mary, the Earl of Cardigan became angry at their joining that church and fired John from his job. However, soon John had a job with a Mr. Goodman where he worked as a gamekeeper until they emigrated to Zion.

Mary had three more children born in Northampton. They were Caroline born on 17 February 1844, Mary Agnes born 28 April 1847, and Rebecca born 28 August 1852.

The Thirkell family left England for America on the Ellen Maria ship on 1 February 1853. The voyage was eventful because of the ship catching on fire out in the middle of the ocean. They were able to get the fire out, however, and complete the trip. They arrived in New Orleans on 7 March 1853. They went up the Mississippi River to Iowa and there prepared to go on to Utah. John had sent money ahead to purchase two wagons and teams of oxen. John could only drive the one team and had five daughters with no sons, so he had William Frederick Darley drive a team for him. William was also a recent convert from England, and was alone and wanted company to travel with.

The Thirkell family was assigned to travel with the Jacob Gates company. They left Iowa in June and arrived in Salt Lake City on 26 September 1853. However, the trip was very difficult and two of Mary's daughters died while they were crossing the plains. Her baby, Rebecca, died first on 3 August 1853, and a week later Mary Agnes died on 10 August 1853. Mary took the fabric from two boxes so they could be used for coffins for her children.

They arrived in Salt Lake City only to be sent right on another twenty miles to Grantsville to help settle that area.

Life in Grantsville was very difficult. Lumber was hard to come by for building and water was scarce. The grasshoppers ate most of their crops. They went months without any flour. A crop of wheat came earlier to them than anyone in Grantsville one year, so Mary shared the wheat with all. She ended up with only one pan of flour from the harvest.

Two more children were born to Mary and John in Gransville: Emily Alice on 16 August 1854 and Henrietta born on 22 October 1857.

In the spring of 1858 the Utah War was on and Mary and her family were told to leave and move south. They did so, and ended up living in their wagon that summer. Her daughter, Jemima, had married William Frederick the year before. William and Jemima traveled south with them. Jemima's first baby was born in the wagon while they were in the Sandy area. Jemima had a gathered breast and was unable to nurse her baby, so Mary nursed the new baby, along with Henrietta, until Jemima was able to nurse her son.

In the fall Brigham Young told the people they could return home. However, the two families moved to Weber Bottoms and stayed there rather than going to Grantsville. John and William had been to Cache Valley the year before and were impressed with that area. They had planted a crop of wheat there. John and William left the families to go to Cache Valley and harvest the crop. It was a big harvest, so they left some of it in the valley and brought some back to use over the winter. The next summer John and William returned to Cache alley to plant another crop and build houses for them to move into. They returned to Weber Bottoms for the winter and in the early spring of 1860 they moved to Wellsvillle to help settle that area.

In Wellsville Mary lost a third child. Her baby, Henrietta, died at age four on the 22 March 1861.

When Mary's grandparents Brown passed away, Mary was sent a large sum of money they had left for her. This was helpful in their efforts to survive and build up this settlement in Wellsville. Both Mary and John worked hard and were successful farmers, raising several different crops. They were the first to plant apple trees in that area. They enjoyed living in Cache Valley and stayed there until their death. Mary died first on 7 December 1881 in Wellsville and was buried in the Wellsville Cemetery. Her husband died only a few years later on 10 April 1884.


Mary's Ordinances Complete
Baptism - 22 October 1850
Confirmation - 27 October 1850
Initiatory - 21 September 1861 Endowment House
Endowment - 21 September 1861 Endowment House
Sealing to Parents - 22 March 1918 Logan Utah Temple
Sealing to Spouse - 21 September 1861 Endowment House



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Thursday, July 13

New feature added

I'm so excited!! 

I added a new feature on my blog! 
Last night, I came across a map that someone had created for the birth place of their ancestors. I didn't realize you could do this! Of course it got me thinking and I quickly figured out how and created one of my own!



I have embedded on this blog a map for the birth and burial places of my ancestors!! It can be found on the right side under the blog list. It is best viewed on a desk top, however it works through your phone too. It 
is a little more difficult to navigate on a phone but can be used with both Apple and Android OS.



😍 The best part, it is completely interactive!! 😍




I have broken it down into the four branches of my grandparents. Want to see just Grandma Webb's side (Hymas), no problem, just uncheck the other layers!








Want to see just one particular ancestor? Again, no problem! Click on the icon next to their name and it will take you right there. 





Each ancestor has two pins. Birth and burial. 

The icon with the tree is the cemetery (always brown because, well dirt  see what I did there haha). 

The baby symbols are for the birth location. The baby icons will have various colors, depending on the branch the ancestor is part of.

Byron B Glover Family Tree

LuDean Maughan Glover Family Tree

A. Leon Webb Family Tree

Geniel Hymas Webb Family Tree


The birth places will be pinned to the city. However, as an added bonus, the burial places will be pinned to where their burial site in the cemetery if you zoom in close enough. Husband/wife that are buried together are pinned together, likewise if they were born in the same city. 

Currently it has only the ancestors that I have blogged about. As I add more blog posts, the pins will increase. If a grave has been visited and an ancestor has been blogged about, but the spouse is not buried locally, I will still include them in the map. If they died on the plains, or in the process of emigrating to Utah, I will mark them with the following grey star icon.Otherwise, they will have the same cemetery icon pictured above. 

Additionally, the person's picture (if avail) is included with their birth place. A picture of their headstone is included with their burial place.

I am so stoked for this map! Let me know what you guys think!



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Wednesday, July 12

Stillman Pond (1803-1878) and Mary Abigail Thorn (1821-1904)

Stillman Pond and Mary Abigail Thorn. My great great great great grandparents through my maternal grandfather. This grave was another one of those hunts. It started just shortly after I decided to do this blog.... so let me back up some

May 29, 2017


This grave threw me for a loop! I had conflicting info on if it was in the Richmond Cemetery or the Lewiston Cemetery. I wanted to document the adventure I had over the weekend though, even though I don't intend to share the post until I add the individuals information at a later date.


Not being sure where the grave is, isn't the story that makes me shake my head and chuckle. While in the Lewiston Cemetery over Memorial Day weekend, I was actually looking for another grave. I was wondering around reading the names on various grave stones looking for a Glover ancestor (which I looked for for 45 minutes and ended up giving up because of mosquitos, only to figure out later that I was looking in the wrong cemetery! But that story is for a different post...), when I came across this monument....



"Stillman Pond,
Oct 26, 1803
Sept 30, 1878."
"Abigail Thorn Pond,
April 2, 1821,
Mar 7, 1904."






















Recognizing the names Stillman and Abigail Pond, I snapped several pictures. Although I couldn't remember exactly who this person was, I was excited that I got a picture of a grave that I had not intended to find. And to be honest, helped soothe my mood regarding not being able to find the Glover ancestor site that I was originally looking for.  Looking closer at the names listed on the monument, I was confused because a lot of them did not sound familiar. However at the time, I figured it was simply because they were children that I wasn't concerned about. Regardless, the pictures were taken and I planned to file them away until I could dig into the history of these people.


The next day, again, with no intention to look into Stillman or Abigail, I came across some pictures, one being the grave of Stillman. The grave that I came across was NOT the one I snapped pictures of the day before. I started looking closer and realized that the Ponds were showing on two different stones, in two different cemeteries; the one pictured above and the one to the right that is said to be in Richmond Cemetery...

At this point, as you can imagine, I was totally confused! Both sites have the names on it and the correct dates. So how then, could they be buried in both Lewiston and Richmond!?! Looking closer at the pictures, I came to realize that the monument in Lewiston was more about Stillman and Abigail's 6th child, Joseph Thorn Pond and his wife, Amanda Malissa Hendricks. I am through Stillman and Abigail's second child so, this is not my direct ancestor, but regardless it was interesting that the Ponds had names on 2 monuments, in different cemeteries. I am still not sure, where Abigail is. It seems for sure that Stillman is in Richmond, but from the pictures posted online, I do not see that that Abigail is as well. I will have to visit the monument in Richmond and read the engravings so I can find out for sure. However, that will be saved for a different day!


July 2017

I've started to revisit this history. I needed someone through Grandpa Webb, but didn't want to do a Webb this time. Stillman and Abigail is though his mother, LaPreal. 


As always, I look up information on a particular ancestor through family search and through ancestry. I will also Google their name, just to see what pops up. Often, not much comes up with Google, however, with Stillman I found several talks in recent years (by recent, I mean the last 20 years or so) that reference him, his trials and strengths while crossing the plains. I will include one, at the end of the personal histories. Others I will list below. Click on the title name to take you to the talk. 


BYU-Hawaii devotional on June 9, 2015 titled "I Could Not Be Shaken" by Elder Lawrence R. Flake.

BYU devotional on July 22, 1997 titled "It Still Takes Faith" by Brent L. Top was given during the sesquicentennial (150) year of the saints entering the Salt Lake valley.

Additionally, I came across another blog that a lady by the name of Stephanie Smith posts. Back in 2012 she posted some pictures of where Stillman's property was in Nauvoo. There is also a memorial that has been put up memorializing all the pioneers that lost their lives on the plains. She posted a picture of the Pond family names. If you are interested, go check her blog as well! 


Also, I learned in my Google search that in Connecticut there is a pond named Stillman Pond haha! Random factoid for you.






I finally went back to Richmond Cemetery this morning to look at Stillman's marker. He is there, as is Abigail. I have passed this marker more times than I can count without realizing that they were ancestors, or what they went through to make it to Utah. All I could think as I stood next to their grave is, "what would you tell me if you had the chance?" What would they say if they knew that I could pull a little device out of my pocket and read their whole life story. Or that now, I could take my personal vehicle and drive to Nauvoo in just a few days time. The advances of modern medicine and the likelihood that his family would have survived that horrible winter they were forced from Nauvoo.


Standing there, looking at the headstone, I was amazed at the detail that was done on it. I do not know if it is the original grave marker, or if it was added later. If it was original, think of the time that went into it. Not to mention the cost of the marker.



It was nice to find for sure where Stillman and Abigail were buried. And what a privilege for me that it is only in Richmond and I will be able to visit often. The research was very interesting and I learned a lot. I have grown up hearing the stories of my ancestors and the pioneers crossing the plains here and there, but it never sunk in until reading Stillman's history. How he must have mourned for his family that passed on the plains. I cannot fathom the strength it took to leave his family behind and continue on to Utah. 




Stillman Pond's Personal History
A Biographical Sketch Compiled By Leon Y. and H. Ray Pond


Stillman Pond, an early Utah Pioneer, was born on the 26th of October, 1803, at Hubbardston, Worcester, Massachusetts. He was the son of Preston Pond and Hannah Rice. His paternal grandfather was a revolutionary soldier and served in several campaigns. His great-grandfather, Ezra Pond, of Franklin, being dissatisfied with religious conditions of that time, was a dissenter and a leader of the minority in the Franklin Church troubles between 1680 and 1685. He was a restless soul. At that time the religious, social and civic affairs of the community were the same, and when Ezra Pond refused to comply with the orders of the Selectmen, he was forced to leave town. He moved with his family to Hubbardston.

Stillman seemed to have inherited this restlessness and dissatisfaction which manifested itself in his frequent moves as a young man. On his Maternal side, his Grandfather was David Rice, who was a grandson of Lt. Paul Moore, one of the Commanders of the American Army in the battle of Bunkerhill. All of his ancestors were sincere, honest, and God-fearing pioneers and puritans, many of whom were ministers, others were Selectmen of the early towns of New England. Stillman followed in their foot steps as a tiller of the soil. Perhaps few of his ancestors and progenitors ever won national fame and fortune, and fewer still, ever brought reproach or shame upon their name. His ancestors were hard working, honest people, who have left us a heritage which we may be proud.


Stillman Pond lived with his parents until he was twenty years of age, during which time he received a common school education corresponding to the first ten grades of our present day educational system. (1965) He worked on his Father's farm and being the oldest, most of the responsibility fell on him. At that time he learned the trade of harness making by which he used, to make a living. On the 22nd of December, 1825, he married Almyra Whittemore, after which his father gave him a tract of land, where he made his home. He lived there but a few years, when the spirit of moving took possession and he sold his property and removed to Westminster, where he purchased several tracts of land. He remained there until 1832, when he moved to Templeton. His wife bore him five children, four girls and a boy. Almyra Pond died on the 25th of July 1833 and was buried at Hubbardston, Mass.


On July 4, 1834, he married Maria Louisa Davis at Hubbardston. He settled again in this community until 1837 when he moved his family to New Salem, Franklin County, Mass. Where during the next five years he purchased three large tracts of land. The first purchase date was the 27th of September, 1838. He seemed to have been a speculator in land, as he always bought and sold at a profit.


In 1841, Missionaries of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints came to New Salem. They were received by the Pond Family. The message of the Restored Gospel brought joy and happiness to the family and gave peace and comfort to the troubled soul of Stillman. He and his family accepted the Gospel and were baptized on the 28th of December, 1841 by Elder Elias Harris. On the 7th of July 1843, he sold his land and prepared to settle with the Saints in Nauvoo, Illinois.


Before leaving for Nauvoo, Stillman visited his father, with the hope of converting him and his family to the Restored Church. While expounding the truths of the Gospel, he was aroused to indignation when his Father, uninterested, fell asleep. As he took his leave for the West, Stillman remarked, "Father, you won't go to sleep the next time I talk to you."


In the fall of 1843 the Pond family reached Nauvoo. Stillman purchased a tract of land about three-fourths of a mile east of the temple, and directly across the street from the cemetery. It was in the eastern part of the city of Nauvoo, in what was once the beautiful residential district. On this land he built a red brick house, two stories high, in which he established a store in the front part.


He took an active part in the Church and was rewarded for his faithfulness by being ordained an Elder in July 1844. He received his Patriarchal blessing under the hands of John Smith on the 1st of January, 1845 and on May 17, of the same year was ordained a Seventy, becoming a member of the Second Quorum. On the 30th of December 1845, Stillman and his wife entered the Temple of the Lord at Nauvoo where they received their endowments, and on the 4th of February, 1846, he was sealed to his first two wives, by the authority of the Priesthood. Maria stood as proxy for the first wife, then deceased. On the 12th of February 1846, Stillman wrote, "I am perfectly satisfied with the authorities of the Church and consider it my indispensable duty to give heed to all things." This was the guiding Star of his life, which he lived by, and exemplified throughout all his days.


He did not long live in peace at Nauvoo, as persecution continually harassed the Saints. On the 2nd of February 1846, migration West began. Stillman and his family remained until after the battle of Nauvoo September 1846, when they were driven at the point of bayonets across the Mississippi River. Tribulations and hardships were numerous as the winter set in early and the Mormon refugees were without proper food, clothing and shelter. The camp was ravaged by Malaria, Cholera, and consumption. The family became victims of all these diseases. His wife, Maria became Consumptive, and all her children were afflicted with Malaria. Snow fell early on the plains of Iowa and along the way, Stillman buried the first three of his children.


Maria Pond, her body racked with pain and bowed down with grief with the loss of her children, was unable to walk and was confined to her bed with the fever of Malaria. In this condition she gave birth to twins born the fore part of October, 1846, both of whom died a few days later. They were named Joseph and Hyrum Pond.


On the 16th of October, 1846, the refugees arrived at Winter Quarters on the west bank of the Missouri River. Members of the Pond family were all sick with Malaria. Stillman, unable to sit up or walk, lay upon his stomach in the wagon, bracing himself with one arm, and extending the other over the dash board, drove the last 150 miles into Iowa territory.


The influx of saints into Winter Quarters resulted in a shortage of housing facilities in no time. Many new comers were forced to live in tents. Stillman and his family were among these unfortunates, existing this way until after the New Year, when they occupied a log cabin. Disease continued to take it's toll from among their number. The winter was hard and Stillman was called upon to shoulder added grief. This period is often referred to as "The Tragedy at Winter Quarters".


From the journal of Horace K. and Helen Morr Whitneys we read these heart rendering items... "On Wednesday, the 2nd of December 1846, Laura Jane pond, age 14 years, daughter of Stillman and Almya Pond, died of chills and fever. She was born in 1832, in Westminster Worcester, Mass."


"Friday, the 4th of December 1846, Harriet M. Pond, Age eleven years, daughter of Stillman and Maria Pond died with chills. She was born September 6, 1833 in Hubbardston Worcester, Mass."


"Monday, the 7th of December, 1846, Abigail A. Pond, age 18 years, daughter of Stillman and Almyra Pond, died with chills. She was born on the 14 of July 1828, at Hubbardston Worcester County, Massachusetts and was the wife of Bishop Newell K. Whitney."


"Friday, the 15 of January, 1847, Lyman Pond, age 6 years, son of Stillman and Maria Pond, died with chills and fever. He was born April 24, 1840 at New Salem, Franklin County, Mass.


The trials and tribulations of that winter, coupled with the ravages of disease, proved too much for Maria Davis, second wife of Stillman. All of her six children had died. She had stood at the grave side of each. One may never know the sufferings and sorrow of that good woman who had endured so much at the hands of the mobocrats of Illinois, as well as the hardships of a cold and bitter winter with the loss of her children. She was called to her rest on the 17th of May, 1847. Stillman was now alone with his two eldest daughters, Elizabeth Almyra, wife of Bishop Newell K. Whitney and Loenza Alcena, later the wife of Joseph Cardon Kingsbury.


We will probably, never realize the sorrow and the grief that Stillman went through during this winter. It undoubtedly had a lasting effect on his later life. It was a supreme test, and we wonder how many of us today, would be able to stand as firm as did he. He never faltered, but stood true and steadfast to the cause which he had espoused. If there were any misgivings in his mind, he promptly banished them from his thinking. In the fact of obstacles and trials he continued to press onward. Like Job of old, he was again blessed by God with families and posterity.


In the early summer of 1847 Stillman, with his remaining family, became members of the second company of Pioneers under the leadership of John Taylor, and Captain Joseph Mount of the fourth hundred and third ten. In this same group were Major Samuel Russell, his wife Abigail Thorne and their infant daughter Frances, born at Winter Quarters in a covered wagon. This colony arrived at the Salt Lake Valley in the early fall of 1847. At this time, according to Emeline B. Wells, Stillman Pond was one of the wealthiest pioneers. He brought with him bolts and bolts of dry goods, including Jeans. It is said that he freely gave of his goods to others, and that he had furnished Jeans to Brigham Young.


Stillman Pond established his home in Salt Lake City, and engaged in farming. His habitation was located in the Western part of the city. In the following year, when the crickets swept down from the mountains, he was one of the fortunate among the pioneers whose crop was saved by the arrival of the seagulls.


In the spring of 1848, Major Samuel Russell deserted his wife and baby for the gold fields of California. There after, Stillman Pond and Abigail Thorne Russell, were married in the Endowment House on the 8th of February, 1849. He legally adopted the child Frances, and was an officiator in the Endowment House under the supervision of Heber C. Kimball through 1852. He studied Astronomy and Mathematics during the evenings of 1852, under Orson Pratt.


He married a fourth time September 26, 1852, Elizabeth Bessac, the widow of Joseph Mount. She bore him one child, a daughter, later known to the family as Aunt Martha Reed. In 1854 or 1855, she divorced him and married Timothy Foote.


Stillman Pond was rewarded for his faithfulness in the work of the Church by being set apart as Senior President of the 35th quorum of Seventy, the 16th of February, 1853. This office he faithfully fulfilled during the remainder of his life. In 1855 he moved him and his family to the point of the mountain west of Salt Lake, at about the same location of the present town site of Garfield. This move allowed them the needed grazing territory for their cattle. Uncle Beason Lewis, who later was also one of their closest friends at Richmond, lived in part of their mountain home. He married Stillman's oldest daughter, after the death of her second husband, Frederick H. Bainbridge.


The year Johnston's army made it's entrance into the Salt Lake Valley, in 1857, the family moved a second time, there becoming pioneers at Spanish Fork. Just before this move, Stillman took part in the Echo Canyon Campaign under Daniel H. Wells, against Johnston's Army.





Stillman Pond's sturdiness, industry and sobriety won for him favor in the hearts of his new neighbors. Immediately he assumed the responsibility of religious and civic duties, becoming an interested builder in this southern section. In Warner's History of Spanish Fork, it is recorded that "Stillman Pond at one time was elected Alderman of the city, later becoming supervisor of the city streets." From the early records of the Spanish Fork Ward under date of April 1, 1860, there is entered the following motion. "It is moved and seconded that Stillman Pond and family be given a recommend from the Ward", for in that spring he was called by President Brigham Young to accompany Bishop Mariner Wood Merrill to Cache Valley in Northern Utah. Accordingly that spring, the family with their meager possessions joined the pioneer group at Richmond, Cache County Utah. A man named Alma Gay assisted in their removal. One pig, a calf, and four yolk of oxen represented the live stock which figured in the one hundred fifty mile journey north. The cattle making up the teams were secured at Antelope Island in the midst of the Great Salt Lake, as the church had established them there to provide working stock for the saints.
"one block east and
a little north of the once
Utah Idaho Railroad Depot"
2017

These new comers were welcomed at Richmond, on the occasion of an Indian disturbance, which according to the daughter, Frances, then fourteen years of age, was a "Fearful and annoying period." A place within the fort was assigned to them for their quarters, where soon after, Stillman erected three log rooms with dirt roofs, located one block east and a little north of the once Utah Idaho Central Railroad Depot, on Main Street. The spot of ground on which these log rooms were located is now a part of a city street in Richmond. The two younger members of the family were born at this location; Martin, May 2, 1862, and Zina, June 7, 1864. In later years, a number have heard these two playfully remark, "We were born in the street."

Later a five acre city lot was allowed the family near the fort and subsequently a modern home, for those days, was erected on the city block north of the old People's Store and Creamry Company. This new home was the first frame house to be built in Richmond. Until just recently, it has continued to stand on what the early settlers called the "Pond Corner."


For a few years after their arrival in Richmond, conditions were difficult for the members of the Pond family. Food consisted chiefly, of boiled wheat and flour, the latter poorly ground and had to be transported from the nearest mill in Brigham City. Often it was so darkened with smut as to render it unwholesome. Sweet foods, ordinarily craved by children were scarce at this time and very seldom had.


The farm lands of Stillman Pond were located on both sides of the present State Highway North of Richmond on Cherry Creek. It was here that the boys had their first lessons in farm operations, as they assisted their father in plowing the wheat grass land and irrigating crops. Without shoes the feet of the boys would become chapped and often bled. To relieve the soreness as best she could, their mother would bathe them in warm bran water. This kindly service during the summer time was one of the special duties of the Mother before retiring at night.


Stillman was active in the Church and religious affairs, of the community. During a period of hardship when necessities were scarce and many were discouraged, he received for his comfort a Patriarchal blessing under the hands of Charles W. Hyde, June 25, 1865. This blessing was of great encouragement to him and his family. He was promised that he should accomplish all he hoped to in righteousness and live as long as desired.


On June 20, 1868, his father, Preston Pond, died at Hubbardston, Mass. Stillman returned to that state. His father died intestate, the estate being distributed by Order of the Court. Stillman shared in this distribution, receiving the oldest son's portion. This more or less changed the fortunes of the family. He returned to Utah with his inheritance and in October 1868, invested the same in a business enterprise called the Richmond Coop, a branch of the Z.C.M.I. This was the first attempt in America of a department store, which has grown to be one of the greatest mercantile institutions of the West. He further engaged in the activity of hauling by wagon, produce from Richmond to Salt Lake City, bringing back merchandise to be sold in the Richmond Coop. On one occasion while in the city, his faithful team Mac and Seal, ran away doing considerable damage, which cost him three hundred dollars, a terrific expense in those days. Other than this, his investment in the Z.C.M.I. proved to be wise and profitable.


He married for the fifth time on the 28th of March, 1870, Anna Regina Swenson (Jacobsen) the widow of Peter Valentine Christiansen at Salt Lake City. She bore him four sons.


All his life Stillman Pond engaged himself in building up the country. He was called to do work on the St. George Temple. Accompanied by Tom Dobson, Lewis Petty, C.H. Monson and Matthew Bell, he drove a span of horses to Southern Utah. While there he hauled rock, making his home with the family of David Cannon. He was a sincere believer in vicarious work and had he lived to see the completion of the Salt Lake and Logan Temples, he would have taken an active part in the ceremonies for and in behalf of his kindred dead. The responsibility of which has fallen upon his descendants to do for him and his forebearers, what they can not do for themselves.


His complete ancestry for eight generation back to the Puritan founders of America has been compiled and the temple work for all has been done by his children and grand-children. It would seem that his great desire to have his progenitors is something his descendants should keep constantly in mind.


He had a generous heart, although somewhat stern and harsh at times. Undoubtedly this was caused by the hardship and sorrow suffered in the tragedy of Winter Quarters. He was consistently religious, always paying an honest tithing. No one having dealings with him could question his integrity and straight forwardness. Few men were harder workers and more righteously ambitious. He was a good provider, and believed in halving a supply of necessities on hand. This was exemplified by his large pile of wood ready to burn, near his home. Many people adopted this idea, in providing for their winter needs in advance, until the practice became a general thing among the pioneers and their descendants. It is also said, that Stillman Pond always had a reserve of fire wood stacked in the nearest canyon to replenish the one at home.


After a lingering illness of two years, he passed to his rest on the 30th of September, 1878, at the age of 74 years, 11 months and 4 days. He was survived by his two wives, Abigail Thorne Pond and Anna Regina Swensen Pond, also by twelve children, seven sons and five daughters. With their ages at the time of their father's death as follows: 



Brigham 25
Lewis Sumner 24
Joseph Thorne 19
Martin 17
Lysander C. 8
Noah S. 6
Moses A. 2
Almyra Elizabeth 51
Mary Anner 28
Martha Ann 25
Abigail 21
Zina Adeline 13

In addition, he was survived by 11 grand-children and 15 great-grandchildren, 38 in all.


Services were held on the 2nd of October 1878, on the second anniversary (birthday) of Moses Alonza, his youngest child. It was reported that his was the largest funeral to that time, held in the community. The cortege consisted of 76 vehicles.


At the reunion held in His honor, during 1962, it was announced that the 38 survivors mentioned above had grown to between 1400 and 1500 souls in the 84 years since his death.


There have been claims that Stillman Pond was the husband of six wives. Careful study and research into this matter by Leon Y. Pond in his day brought forth evidences that His marriages were limited to five in number. The following is a brief statement of each, giving names places, dates, and other vital information.


First Family: Stillman Pond married first December 22, 1825 at Hubbardston, Worcester County, Mass., Almyra Whittemore, daughter of Isaac Whittemore and Annie Woodward. She was born, August 20, 1800 at Hubbardston. She moved with her husband to Westminster, Worcester, Mass., where her four daughters were born. In 1832 she moved to Templeton with her husband. Here her son was born. She died at Templeton, during a epidemic of yellow fever which swept through New England.


She was buried in Hubbardston in the family cemetery. Her tombstone yet standing is a flat slab of Granite. The top is rounded and bears the following inscription: "Almyra Pond, wife of Stillman, died 25 July 1833, age 33." Her husband Stillman Pond was sealed to her in the Nauvoo Temple, Feb 4, 1846, his second wife, Maria acting as proxy for Almyra.


Their Issue is as follows: Almyra Elizabeth Pond, familiarly known as Aunt Lib, born May 29 1827, at Westminster, Worcester, Mass.. She married Jan 7, 1846, Bishop Newell K. Whitney at Nauvoo, Illinois, but later divorced him and married Frederick H. Bainbridge at Salt Lake City, Utah. After his death she married Beason Lewis at Salt lake City. She had one child by her second husband.


Abigail Augusta Pond, Born July 14, 1828 at Westminster, Worcester, Mass. Died Dec. 7, 1846 at Winter Quarters. Married Bishop Newell K. Whitney, Jan 7, 1846 at Nauvoo. No children.


Loenza Alcena Pond, Born Feb. 15, 1830 at Westminster, Worcester, Mass. Died June 15, 1853 at Salt Lake City, Utah. Married at Nauvoo Jan 27, 1846 Joseph Cardon Kingsbury.


Laura Jane Pond, Born March 8, 1832 at Westminster, Worcester, Mass. Died December 2, 1846 at Winter Quarters.


Lyman Addison Pond, Born June 6, 1833 at Templeton, Worcester, Mass. Died in September 1833 at Templeton, Mass.


Second Family: Stillman Pond married July 2, 1834 at Hubbardston or Templeton, Worcester, Mass., Maria Louisa Davis, daughter of James and Miranda Davis, Born at Templeton, Mass.. In 1813.


There Issue is as follows: Harriet Miranda Pond, Born Sept. 6, 1835 at Templeton, Mass., Died of Malaria at Winter Quarters, Nebraska Dec 4, 1846.


Lowell Anson Pond Born July 18, 1837 at New Salem, Franklin County, Mass. Died in September 1846 at Iowa.


Lyman Pond, Born April 24, 1840 at New Salem, Franklin County, Mass. Died Jan 12 1847 at Winter Quarters.


Charles Stillman Pond, Born Oct. 28, 1844 at Nauvoo, Hancock Co., Illinois. Died Jan. 5, 1845 at Nauvoo, Illinois.


Joseph Pond, Hyrum Pond, Twins. Born the latter part of September, or the early part of October 1846, on the Iowa Plains. Both died a few days later.



Third Family: Stillman Pond married Abigail Thorne in Salt Lake City, Utah, Feb. 8, 1849. She was a daughter of Richard Thorne and Mary Armstrong.

There Issue is as follows: Frances Russell, Born Oct. 12, 1846 at Winter Quarters, Nebraska. Died 1938 at Boise, Idaho. Married Thadeus Huff. She was legally adopted by and sealed to Stillman Pond, Feb. 8, 1849.


Mary Anner Pond, Born Jan 1, 1850 at Salt Lake City, Utah. Died Aug. 19, 1919. Married John Buxton.


Charles Stillman Pond, Born January 1852. Died as an infant.


Brigham Pond, Born June 9, 1853 at Salt Lake City, Utah. Died Dec. 26, 1933 at Logan, Utah. Married (1) Aroetta Whittle, (2) Catherine Whittle.


Lewis Sumner Pond, Born Dec. 25, 1854 at Salt Lake City, Utah. Died Nov. 16, 1934 at Salt Lake City. Married Julia N. Whittle.


Abigail Pond, Born Jan. 11, 1857 at Salt Lake City, Utah. Died Jan. 13, 1934 at Los Angeles, California. Married William D. VanNoy.


Joseph Thorne Pond, Born Sept. 1859 at Spanish Fork, Utah. Died March 17, 1935 at Thatcher, Utah. Married Amanda Hendricks.


Martin Pond, Born May 21, 1862 at Richmond, Utah. Died June 12, 1935 at Logan, Utah.


Zina Adeline Pond, Born June 7, 1865 at Richmond, Utah. Died June 20, 1939 at Rigby, Idaho. Married John Casper Whittle.


Fourth Family: Stillman Pond married Elizabeth Bessac at Salt Lake City, Utah, Sept. 26, 1852. She was born July 5, 1813 at Canton Tioga, New York, the daughter of Lewis Bessac and Mary Durham.


There Issue is as follows: Martha Ann Pond, Born Oct. 13, 1853 at Salt Lake City, Utah. Died June 11, 1910. She married Walter P. Read.


Fifth Family: Stillman Pond married Anna Regina Swenson (Jacobsen). She was Born Nov. 26, 1837, at Balkary, Torpa, Sweden, daughter of Swen Jacobsen and Inger Samuelsen.


There Issue is as follows: Lysander Christensen Pond Born Dec. 31, 1870 at Richmond, Utah. Died May 30, 1936 at Idaho Falls, Idaho. Married Louis Presinda Kimball.


Noah Seander Pond, Born Dec. 22, 1872 at Richmond, Utah. Died Oct. 15, 1955 at Phoenix, Arizona. Married (1) Alice Armeda Snow Young, (2) Helen Orem Davis.


Moses Alonzo Pond, Born Oct. 2, 1876 at Richmond, Utah. Died Nov. 15, 1961 in Salt Lake City, Utah. Married (1) Sarah Groesbeck Smith, (2) Sarah H. Heath, (3) Helen Orem Davis.


Aaron Alfonzo Pond, Born Oct. 2, 1876 at Richmond, Utah. Died May 1877 an infant.



Stillman's Ordinances Complete

Baptism - 28 December 1841
Confirmation - 28 December 1841
Initiatory - 30 December 1845 Old Nauvoo Temple
Endowment - 30 December 1845 Old Nauvoo Temple
Sealing to Parents - 14 October 1938 Salt Lake Temple
Sealing to Spouse - 4 February 1846 Old Nauvoo Temple - Almira Whittemore
Sealing to Spouse - 4 February 1846 Old Nauvoo Temple  - Maria Louisa Davis
Sealing to Spouse - 8 February 1849 Other - Mary Abigail Thorn
Sealing to Spouse - 26 September 1852 Endowment House - Elizabeth Joan Bessac
Sealing to Spouse - 25 May 1989 Provo Utah Temple - Anna Regina Swenson





Abigail Thorne's Personal History
written by Leon Y. Pond


Abigail Thorne Pond, daughter of Richard Thorne and Mary Armstrong, was born 2 April, 1821 at Lair Promise, Cayuga Co., New York. Her parents were highly respected citizens, possessing many friends in the county where she lived.

Curiosity actuated Abigail Thorne, then a young woman, to attend a religious meeting which was being conducted in the community by two Mormon Elders. Both the songs and the message proclaimed made deep impressions upon her. Because of an outstanding spiritual experience she was converted and baptized upon that occasion. Becoming the first proselyte to the Mormon faith in that section of the country. As a result of her conversion the entire Thorne family joined the Church with the exception of the father. However, in the later years a number of them apostatized.

Abigail soon experienced the urge to join with the Saints and in due time reached her desired destination. Under date of March 7, 1843 at the age of 22 she received her Patriarchal Blessing at Nauvoo under the hands of Hyrum Smith, just fifteen months before his martyrdom at Carthage. A Special feature of this blessing was the gift of dreams and visions by the Holy Ghost. She also enjoyed the gift of tongues. It was her special privilege also to be present upon the occasion of the transfiguration of Brigham Young. It was on Thursday, August 8, 1844. A vast assemblage of Saints had gathered. Sidney Rigdon spoke for one and one-half hours presenting himself to them as a guardian for the church. The longer he talked, the more the people were convinced that he was without the inspiration of the Lord. When Brigham Young arose to speak, the people were astonished for Pres. Young stood transfigured before them and they beheld the Prophet Joseph Smith and heard his voice as naturally as ever when he was living. It was a manifestation to the Saints that they might recognize the correct authority.

Abigail was married to Major Samuel Russell in 1845. During the trying times of the Saints at Winter Quarters their first child, Francis, was born, in a covered wagon October, 1846. The following year they joined with the second company of pioneers and came west-ward under the direction of John Taylor. Major Russell officially acted as captain and his wife, Abigail, walking by his side carried her baby Francis practically the entire distance from the Missouri River to the Salt Lake Valley.

Upon reaching the valleys of the Mountains Major Russell endeavored to prevail upon Abigail to continue with him to the gold fields of California. Her immediate reply to this suggestion was both curt and poetic: "Samuel Russell," she said, "I came here for the sake of the Gospel and not for gold." The Major took his departure with others but his wife and child remained with the Saints.

(Note 2017: In Samuel and Abigail's daughter, Francis' history, the following is stated.
Soon after their arrival, Samuel's first wife Ester's faith began to fail and much to Abigail's sorrow, Samuel's soon followed. 
Ester's one desire was to get to California before her baby was born, this wish he granted. Their forth child Nettie was born the first night they camped in California. 
Abigail, being a polygamist wife, could not have accompanied him if she had so desired, but anyone that ever knew Abigail would know that she would never have given up her beloved gospel for anything or anyone, although she always said he was a good kind man. 
Samuel returned to Salt Lake after the death of his first wife hoping for a reunion with Abigail, but found her married and raising a fine family. He then returned to California where he lived until his death.
Nettie was born in July 1850. Ester passed away in September 1855)


Soon after being deserted by Major Russell she obtained a divorce and married Stillman Pond, by whom she had eight children. They made their home in Salt Lake City. In 1857 they moved to Spanish Fork, and in 1860 they were sent to Richmond, Utah. Conditions were hard but she maintained her home in orderliness and love.

Following the death of her husband in 1878 the widow Abigail maintained her home in Richmond for a short time. Sometime during the late eighties she moved to Lewiston where her sons had established themselves in business. She succeeded Almira Merrill as president of the ward Relief Society in which capacity she served ably and well.

As is the case with a normal mother, her outstanding accomplishments in life were her boys and girls, who were anxious constantly to provide for every convenience through the remaining hears of her life. She lived among her children considerably thereafter, finally establishing living quarters at the home of her son Martin.

During the early spring of 1904 she contracted an illness that finally led up to her death on March 7 aged 82 years, 11 months, & 3 days
. The last week or two were moments of intense physical suffering almost beyond her power to endure it. Which invited the tenderness sympathy of her children gathered at her bedside.

An experience that her family remembered and one that remained as a sacred testimony was witnessed at that time of her passing. Desiring that rest and relief might come to this weary soul, her sons bearing the Holy Priesthood officiated in the Ordinance of Dedication. Immediately following the removal their hands from her head, the uttered prayer was heard, and the great spirit of their mother took its flight to the realm of the disembodied; then all was peaceful and quiet.

Her days were lengthened to the age of 83 years. She had endured many privations and hardships throughout her life, but never wavered from the faith that came to her when a girl. She had seen her family grown to maturity, established in good homes with large families and keeping the faith. This was her joy.


Mary Abigail's Ordinances Complete

Baptism - 24 November 1992 Logan Utah Temple
Confirmation - 30 September 1838
Initiatory - 20 January 1846 Old Nauvoo Temple
Endowment - 20 January 1846 Old Nauvoo Temple
Sealing to Parents - 25 May 1916 Logan Utah Temple
Sealing to Spouse - 20 January 1846 Old Nauvoo Temple - Samuel Russell
Sealing to Spouse - 8 February 1849 Other - Stillman Pond

The following is a reprint of a talk given by James E. Faust in April 1979 Sunday Morning Conference. It is titled "The Refiners Fire" (link will take you to a video of the talk. Story of Stillman starts at about 10:30).




Ensign - February 2006

By President James E. Faust
Second Counselor in the First Presidency

This message is to all, but especially to those who feel they have had more trials, sorrows, pricks, and thorns than they can bear and in their adversity are almost drowned in the waters of bitterness. It is intended as one of hope, strength, and deliverance.

Some years ago President David O. McKay (1873–1970) told of the experience of some of those in the Martin handcart company. Many of these early converts had emigrated from Europe and were too poor to buy oxen or horses and a wagon. They were forced by their poverty to pull handcarts containing all of their belongings across the plains by their own brute strength. President McKay related an occurrence which took place some years after the heroic exodus:


“A teacher, conducting a class, said it was unwise ever to attempt, even to permit them [the Martin handcart company] to come across the plains under such conditions.”


Then President McKay quoted an observer who was present in that class: “Some sharp criticism of the Church and its leaders was being indulged in for permitting any company of converts to venture across the plains with no more supplies or protection than a handcart caravan afforded.


“An old man in the corner … sat silent and listened as long as he could stand it, then he arose and said things that no person who heard him will ever forget. His face was white with emotion, yet he spoke calmly, deliberately, but with great earnestness and sincerity.


“In substance [he] said, ‘I ask you to stop this criticism. You are discussing a matter you know nothing about. Cold historic facts mean nothing here, for they give no proper interpretation of the questions involved. Mistake to send the Handcart Company out so late in the season? Yes. But I was in that company and my wife was in it and Sister Nellie Unthank whom you have cited was there, too. We suffered beyond anything you can imagine and many died of exposure and starvation, but did you ever hear a survivor of that company utter a word of criticism? …


“‘I have pulled my handcart when I was so weak and weary from illness and lack of food that I could hardly put one foot ahead of the other. I have looked ahead and seen a patch of sand or a hill slope and I have said, I can go only that far and there I must give up, for I cannot pull the load through it.’”


He continues: “‘I have gone on to that sand and when I reached it, the cart began pushing me. I have looked back many times to see who was pushing my cart, but my eyes saw no one. I knew then that the angels of God were there.


“‘Was I sorry that I chose to come by handcart? No. Neither then nor any minute of my life since. The price we paid to become acquainted with God was a privilege to pay, and I am thankful that I was privileged to come in the Martin Handcart Company.’” (“Pioneer Women,” Relief Society Magazine, Jan. 1948, 8)



The Refining Fire

Here, then, is a great truth. In the pain, the agony, and the heroic endeavors of life, we pass through a refiner’s fire, and the insignificant and the unimportant in our lives can melt away like dross and make our faith bright, intact, and strong. In this way the divine image can be mirrored from the soul. It is part of the purging toll exacted of some to become acquainted with God. In the agonies of life, we seem to listen better to the faint, godly whisperings of the Divine Shepherd.

Into every life there come the painful, despairing days of adversity and buffeting. There seems to be a full measure of anguish, sorrow, and often heartbreak for everyone, including those who earnestly seek to do right and be faithful. The Apostle Paul referred to his own challenge: “And lest I should be exalted above measure … , there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me.” (2 Cor. 12:7)


The thorns that prick, that stick in the flesh, that hurt, often change lives which seem robbed of significance and hope. This change comes about through a refining process which often seems cruel and hard. In this way the soul can become like soft clay in the hands of the Master in building lives of faith, usefulness, beauty, and strength. For some, the refiner’s fire causes a loss of belief and faith in God, but those with eternal perspective understand that such refining is part of the perfection process.


Said Alma, “A shepherd hath called after you and is still calling after you, but ye will not hearken unto his voice!” (Alma 5:37) In our extremities, it is possible to become born again, born anew, renewed in heart and spirit. We no longer ride with the flow of the crowd, but instead we enjoy the promise of Isaiah to be renewed in our strength and “mount up with wings as eagles.” (Isa. 40:31)


The proving of one’s faith goes before the witnessing, for Moroni testified, “Ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith.” (Ether 12:6) This trial of faith can become a priceless experience.


States Peter, “The trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ.” (1 Pet. 1:7) Trials and adversity can be preparatory to becoming born anew.



Becoming New Creatures

A rebirth out of spiritual adversity causes us to become new creatures. From the book of Mosiah we learn that all mankind must be born again—born of God, changed, redeemed, and uplifted—to become the sons and daughters of God. (Mosiah 27:24–27) President Marion G. Romney (1897–1988), First Counselor in the First Presidency, said of this marvelous power: “The effect upon each person’s life is likewise similar. No person whose soul is illuminated by the burning Spirit of God can in this world of sin and dense darkness remain passive. He is driven by an irresistible urge to fit himself to be an active agent of God in furthering righteousness and in freeing the lives and minds of men from the bondage of sin.” (Conference Report, Oct. 1941, 89)

The feelings of being reborn were expressed by Elder Parley P. Pratt (1807–57) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles: “If I had been set to turn the world over,—to dig down a mountain, to go to the ends of the earth, or traverse the deserts of Arabia, it would have been easier than to have undertaken to rest, while the Priesthood was upon me. I have received the holy anointing and I can never rest, till the last enemy is conquered, death destroyed, and truth reigns triumphant.” (Deseret News, Apr. 30, 1853, 2)


Unfortunately, some of our greatest tribulations are the result of our own foolishness and weakness and occur because of our own carelessness or transgression. Central to solving these problems is the great need to get back on the right track and, if necessary, engage in each of the steps for full and complete repentance. Through this great principle, many things can be made fully right and all things better.


We can go to others for help. To whom can we go? Elder Orson F. Whitney (1855–1931) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles asked and answered this question:


“To whom do we look, in days of grief and disaster, for help and consolation? … They are men and women who have suffered, and out of their experience in suffering they bring forth the riches of their sympathy and condolences as a blessing to those now in need. Could they do this had they not suffered themselves?

“… Is not this God’s purpose in causing his children to suffer? He wants them to become more like himself. God has suffered far more than man ever did or ever will, and is therefore the great source of sympathy and consolation.” (“A Lesson from the Book of Job,” Improvement Era, Nov. 1918, 7)


Isaiah, before the Savior’s birth, referred to Him as “a man of sorrows.” (Isa. 53:3) Speaking in the Doctrine and Covenants of Himself, the Savior said, “Which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit—and would that I might not drink the bitter cup, and shrink.” (D&C 19:18)


Some are prone to feel that their afflictions are punishment. Roy W. Doxey writes:


“The Prophet Joseph Smith taught that it is a false idea to believe that the saints will escape all the judgments—disease, pestilence, war, etc.—of the last days; consequently, it is an unhallowed principle to say that these adversities are due to transgression. (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 162.)


“President Joseph F. Smith taught that it is a feeble thought to believe that the illness and affliction that come to us are attributable either to the mercy or the displeasure of God.” (The Doctrine and Covenants Speaks (1970), 2:373; see also Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine, 5th ed. (1939), 56–57)


Paul understood this perfectly. When referring to the Savior, he said,


“Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;


“And being made perfect, he became the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey him.” (Heb. 5:8–9)



A Chronicle of Endurance

For some, the suffering is extraordinary. In the early days of the Church Stillman Pond was a member of the second quorum of the seventy in Nauvoo. He was an early convert to the Church, having come from Hubbardston, Massachusetts. Like others, he and his wife, Maria, and their children were harassed and driven out of Nauvoo. In September 1846 they became part of the great western migration. The early winter that year brought extreme hardships, including malaria, cholera, and consumption. The family was visited by all three of these diseases.

Maria contracted consumption, and all of the children were stricken with malaria. Three of the children died while moving through the early snows. Stillman buried them on the plains. Maria’s condition worsened because of the grief, pain, and the fever of malaria. She could no longer walk. Weakened and sickly, she gave birth to twins. They were named Joseph and Hyrum, and both died within a few days.


The Stillman Pond family arrived at Winter Quarters, and like many other families, they suffered bitterly while living in a tent. The death of five children coming across the plains to Winter Quarters was but a beginning.


The journal of Horace K. and Helen Mar Whitney verifies the following regarding four more of the children of Stillman Pond who perished:


“On Wednesday, the 2nd of December 1846, Laura Jane Pond, age 14 years, … died of chills and fever.” Two days later on “Friday, the 4th of December 1846, Harriet M. Pond, age 11 years, … died with chills.” Three days later, “Monday, the 7th of December, 1846, Abigail A. Pond, age 18 years, … died with chills.” Just five weeks later, “Friday, the 15th of January, 1847, Lyman Pond, age 6 years, … died with chills and fever.”


Four months later, on May 17, 1847, his wife, Maria Davis Pond, also died. Crossing the plains, Stillman Pond lost nine children and a wife. He became an outstanding colonizer in Utah and later became a leader in the quorums of the seventy. Having lost these nine children and his wife in crossing the plains, Stillman Pond did not lose his faith. He did not quit. He went forward. He paid a price, as have many others before and since, to become acquainted with God.


The Divine Shepherd has a message of hope, strength, and deliverance for all. If there were no night, we would not appreciate the day, nor could we see the stars and the vastness of the heavens. We must partake of the bitter with the sweet. There is a divine purpose in the adversities we encounter every day. They prepare, they purge, they purify, and thus they bless.


When we pluck the roses, we find we often cannot avoid the thorns which spring from the same stem.


Out of the refiner’s fire can come a glorious deliverance. It can be a noble and lasting rebirth. The price to become acquainted with God will have been paid. There can come a sacred peace. There will be a reawakening of dormant, inner resources. A comfortable cloak of righteousness will be drawn around us to protect us and to keep us warm spiritually. Self-pity will vanish as our blessings are counted.


The blessings of eternity will surely come to those who endure refining, as the Lord Himself taught: “He only is saved who endureth unto the end.” (D&C 53:7) I testify that Jesus is the Christ and the Divine Redeemer. He lives! His are the sweet words of eternal life.



Ideas for Home Teachers

After prayerfully studying this message, share it using a method that encourages the participation of those you teach. Following are some examples.

1. Hold up a gold ring or a picture of a ring. Explain how at first gold can have many impurities. Describe how heat separates the impurities from the gold, leaving the gold pure and beautiful. Compare this process to what happens to us when we overcome trials, and bear testimony of what the Apostle Peter taught: “The trial of your faith [is] much more precious than of gold that perisheth.”


2. Ask family members to suggest reasons we experience trials. Read a pioneer story from the message. Discuss how these pioneers were examples of being refined by trials. Ask family members to whom they, like the pioneers, should look in times of trouble. Bear testimony that the Savior is the best counselor.


3. Make a list of blessings that come from trials by reading aloud the section of the message titled “A Chronicle of Endurance.” Invite family members to share blessings they have received through their own trials.




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